If you scored high
- Practice naming your emotions and soothing them before seeking reassurance.
- Establish routines that reinforce your identity outside of relationships.
Results & Interpretation
Higher scores indicate stronger patterns of emotional dependency—leaning heavily on others for stability. Lower scores reflect a sturdy blend of self-trust and connection.
This Emotional Dependency Test , or “Am I Emotionally Dependent Quiz,” is a free online self-assessment tool that helps individuals better understand their level of emotional dependency and explore the degree to which their emotional well-being relies on others.
Complete the quiz to generate a score and unlock tailored guidance. When you finish, click “View detailed analysis” to return here with your score applied automatically.
0 – 4 points
You balance independence with interdependence. Keep nurturing emotional skills and healthy support systems.
5 – 8 points
You’re building self-trust though reassurance still plays a role. Practice self-soothing before reaching out.
9 – 12 points
You often rely on others to feel safe or confident. Explore tools that strengthen your internal sense of security.
13 – 15 points
External validation feels essential to your wellbeing. Consider therapeutic support to build self-worth and emotion regulation.